Friendship

Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar.

The famous essayist Bacon has warned against the friendship between a very rich person and a very poor person. Economic disparity damages friendship. Thus friendship is a feeling of affection between two likeminded persons of uniform status.

It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.

Money is an enemy of friendship. Everybody has an attraction for money. When lending or borrowing of money is done between two friends, there is great risk. Friendship may be affected. So it is wise for true friends to avoid monetary transaction. Vanity is another element which breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect. When a person tries to criticise his friend, their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.

Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are more dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words they bring enormous ruin to us. A true friend never exploits. He rather surrenders. But at present, the meaning of friendship has changed.

There are many fair-weathered friends. They terminate their friendly tie as soon as their interests are fulfilled. It is very difficult to find a true friend today. It is better to establish true friendship with either a dog or an elephant. Both these beasts will remain faithful to their human friends. Today, friendship between two persons is short-lived.

Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.

Loves happens only once

                                Loves happens only once

U mite thinking that it’s really a impractical thing. But guys it’s a fact “LOVES HAPPENS ONLY ONCE REST ALL ARE EXPRIENCE”.  The first love that happens to us is always exciting. Some of us used to think about her/him full night and day.  Sum of us used to hide ourselves inside in blanket and used to sweat like anything but still we did it just to have a SMS chat with  him/her. Recharge our mobile regularly and activate the SMS scheme just to be in touch wid her/him all day and nite.  The thing that we shared about him/her with our friend with a feel of joy and a strange feeling of excitement which can’t be describe in words.  

But some are not that lucky to have same first love throughout the life . Though we move ahead in life and meet someone and fall in love again. But this time it not just love we are committing with each other but with an experience. An experience that we got from our first love. The old same exciting doesn’t remain anymore. We become more practical saying that it’s impossible with you all the time and that we have responsibility.

The famous Hindi dialogue that “we can spend our whole life with each other just on love” , suddenly changes to “Be practical loves aint enough we need money to survive.”  WE become smarter and more practical. But we still cant  forget our first love,strange but true :).

All Love story have a happy ending no matter what you say.

What’s a love story according to you? A boy loves a girl. Girl shows attitude. Boy still pursues her and at last he gets her love. Happy ending right? What about the boy/girl who loves and can’t express their feelings. What will you call their love? 

“Untold Love stories”, “Not true Love” or “Just an attraction”. 

I know many of us will do anything to get our love, but it’s not necessary that we indeed get it. Saying “I Love You” is really not that easy. But once you say it, u feel light hearted and relaxed. And then decision comes from the person we proposed to. It might be a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’. If it’s a ‘yes’ we are happy and if ‘no’ we get depressed. 

Getting depressed is not the solution. I know it is easy to say but you must feel happy not because you got a ‘no’, but you got to know what love really means. 

In a love story the most important factor, as you might know, is love. You should feel proud that you got to experience the world’s most wonderful feeling “Love”.

Never feel pity for yourself; always feel proud because it might act like a medicine when u feel low. It will give you tremendous energy that will charge you up to overcome that depression. 

      GETTING LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS IMPORTANT BUT FEELING IT .

One Side LOve- The most Hurting feeling

Yeah OSL (One Side Love ) most of us have been through this but only few had the guts to express their feeling in the front of their love and even some might succeeded in it and spend their entire life with the people whom they love.

But  most who are in OSL are afraid to do so due to the fear of rejection or feeling to make a fool out of themself. In OSL we just spent our time thinking about our love. And if we see them in our canteen area or class or office or at any function we become conscious. We start to think what can we do to get her attention and when we try to approach them and find that they are surrounded by alpha personality  we go back in our nest due to fear.

OSL is good but too much holding on one person and assuming they will  come all the way to us and say " I Love you too" then don't except diz. It just sound amazing in bollywood movies but the in reality its completely opposite.  You have to go there and say those words "I LOVE YOU" all by yourself and should be ready if she /he doesn't give the answer that you expected. IF you are rejected it would be tough for you but don't get depress , just move ahead. Who knows your soul mate might be waiting to get you in the future.All what I want to share to the people who are in One Side Love just go out and say what you feel instead of keeping it inside yourself at least you won't feel neglected. That you weren't able to express your feeling to your love :)

College dayss

Remembering my class mates, after few yrs. My eyes were filled with tears Everyone now is busy a lot. No one escaped destiny's plot. . Project reviews to campus interviews Nicknames to last bench games, Cultural reharsals to love proposals, Short term crushes to class room blushes. Everything is fresh in our mind, Wish life could just rewind Let's laugh, play and rejoice, Once again become college guys Chatting and laughing , we all were in elation Till then painful momement of sepration. When it was time to part We retumed with a heave heart. Today life is full of commitments And too many worries But those cherished moments WILL LIVE FOEVER IN OUR MEMORIES!!!!! :)

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The 3rd person

                                         The 3rd person

Time keeps on changing and so do relationships.

From a friend to lover or suddenly to a new category: the third person- an outsider.

We love to hear “YOU ARE A VERY GOOD FRIEND TO ME”

But we really get hurt when it changes to “YOU STAY OUT OF IT BECAUSE YOU ARE AN OUTSIDER”.

You share all your secrets with them and trust them,

and when you expect the same in return you just become a third person for them.

All the beautiful long night chats suddenly begin to fade away,

the closeness seems to disappear…

But still, I don’t mind

because for me, it’s the friendship that I care.

I don’t care where I lie in your relationship priority circle

You can call me whatever you want third or fourth person and so on…

But for me you would be the same old best buddy,

No matter what u think about me.

What she meant 2 me

Times never stop
It just go on
But whenever i see her

I guess it comes to a halt

The fast moving world
Seems to come to a pause
The fast moving wind
Seems to become slow and gentle
Carrying love in the air

The smile on her face
Seems to become special
the eyes seems to be like
Two Shining star

She seems to be like an angel
From the heaven
Bright and beautiful
full of joy

If only I could tell her
How special is she to me
The gal of my dream
The beat of my heart  

Love according to me

Life was dark and cold,
Seems to be standing alone,
Life is was meaningless,
until she was met,

I still remember that day
When she was walking away,
the smile on her face,
Made me to feel amaze,

I don't know what happen,
All thing started to feel happy,
The way she used to talk to me,
Made me feel confident and merry,

She added some meaning in life,
She was like  a hidden Treasure,
Which gave me energy,
Which i cant measure,

She taught what was love,
But i didn't had the gut to tell her,
It was always a dream to make her mine,
But guess that wasn't on her mind,

She taught me what was love,
Its not about sacrifice
Its not about getting hut,

But it is to love And set it free,
If it cums back
It was mine
Or else it wasn't mine,

Now only one thing
That matter to me,
Is that her smile,
Remain on her pretty face,

Whether its come from my side,
Or from other,
Her happiness is the only thing,
That now really matter

Be yourself

It's hard to be yourself,
But it's now time to be yourself




Allow yourself to dream big,
Allow yourself to learn a lot,
Allow yourself to fly high in the sky,
Where no one can withheld u,
Just Allow yourself to b free


Allow yourself to believe in yourself 
And when you do you will find self-confidence,


Allow yourself to be love 
And in return you will get love,


Allow yourself to open yourself,

Be yourself

And when you do you will be happy once again,


Allow yourself to be positive
And when you do life will get easier,


Allow yourself to laugh
So that people come to know what laugh is,


Allow yourself to be happy 
And when you do you will influence other around you, 

My Best Friend

MY BEST Friend…..

When we meet we didn’t knew that we would be such a close friend,

I don’t know when it happen, But I m glad for it,

U came into my life when I really needed a friend,

U were always der to make me laugh, Whn I was sad,

U were always der when I needed advice,

U where always der whn I was low,

When I needed a friend the most, you were there.

I thank God for u everyday
Four years ago this friendship started
It has truly grown into something wonderful

I hav no words to describe our friendship,

I promise to help u as u help me,

I promise to make u smile as u made me,

I promise to stand tall in ur problem as u did,

I just pray to god to send u an Angel,

One who trust her with its care;
Someone or something for her to love,
And to always be there.

One to help u  fill ur days;
With hope, love, and laughter,
And the warmth of sunshine rays.

If u ever feel low dnt hesitate to talk,

I would b always der to listen to u,

Always der to make u feel tall and strong.

For me It’s  not just a frdhsip

It’s a bond which is getting closeer and tighter day by day

But always remember this when I say,
"Our friendship is a treasure
Well beyond any measure. "

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

F: - Fun

R-Relaxation

I: - Incredible

E: - Energy

N: - Naughty

D: - Daring

S: - Special

This is the role of the F.R.I.E.N.D.S in our life. Many say that “Love is their life”, but I say “Friends are the one that helps us to make life”. Friends are like a 2^nd family to me. They are the people with whom we  can share everything.

Many people mostly ask their friend that till when will they will be friends. Many say “Forever”, some say “Always”. But when my friends ask me I say “I don’t know what to say because I can’t judge which words has the meaning to make you understand till life long.”

I believe that there are 2 types of friends. One which keeps on changing and other that never changes. Both of types play an important role. It’s a fact that in this busy life we don’t have time for our-self. But still we try to help the friends that need our help and even though sometime if they failed to help at that time they will somehow try to make sure that they don’t repeat the same mistake again.

Many say “Don’t expect for any-one because if someone fails to fulfill them. We will be hurt”. Though this might be true but still we have to expect from friends. Because this help us to make a deep relation and also help us to know who will stand for us in which conditions. If a friends comes and apologize that we failed to help to you just forgive him/her from heart because he/she will surely make it sure that they don’t commit the same mistake again.

I guess I have written enough ……. I want to write more but I hope you will get what I am trying to say to you guys..
Its for all my dearest friends who have made my life special and I really thanks them.  I don’t hav words to describe how special you guys are to me.

Missing u a lot ……………

A letter from LOVE-A Wonderful Feeling

Dear Lover,
                 You might be thinking why I have written this letter. I know it's a wonderful feeling to be in love with someone. When we are in love, only one thing goes on continuously in our minds and heart i.e about the person we  love. We sit whole day and  think how we will spend our entire life with him.
                  But as time changes, people also changes  and so there way of thinking. There are very few people who really take their love seriously.
                   Today youth just think that love is just for fun,for One Night Stand and much more. The Bollywood movie "LOVE SEX AUR DHOKHA" is a perfect example for this.
                    It's hurt me a lot because the real meaning of mine is been lost. For youth i am like a ticket for having sex and much more. So I have written this letter to tell what I really mean.
                    I agree when we are in deep love we might get physical. But getting physical is a step  when there are really no other way to express your love.....
                    Let me tell u how does a true love happen. I am telling you this because there are many girls and boys who just waste their time for this so called "PHYSICAL ATTRACTION" which called as "LOVE".
                   The very 1st step of love is friendship. Because love and friendship happen between two unknown people. Friendship is 2nd superior relation after our parents. Friends are those person in our life to whom we can say and discuss any thing that we cant do with our parents. Friendship places foundation of a true relationship. It's the relation that helps two people to known about each other very closely.
                  The 2nd most important in love is "LOYALTY AND TRUST". Though he/she might be your good frd it really matter how loyal and trustworthy is he/she to u. Being Loyal help a person to develop a feeling of trust for him/her. Trust is the most important feeling in love. Without trust and loyalty no relation last for a sec.
                   SO my dear lovers plz dnt make any such mistake tht will make u feel gulity for ur entire lyf. Test ur love how pure, loyal and trustworthy is she or her.

                          HAVE A HAPPY LYF

                                                                                                                                 From:-
                                                                                                                                  LOVE
                                                                                                                           ( A Wonderful Feeling)