Friendship

Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar.

The famous essayist Bacon has warned against the friendship between a very rich person and a very poor person. Economic disparity damages friendship. Thus friendship is a feeling of affection between two likeminded persons of uniform status.

It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.

Money is an enemy of friendship. Everybody has an attraction for money. When lending or borrowing of money is done between two friends, there is great risk. Friendship may be affected. So it is wise for true friends to avoid monetary transaction. Vanity is another element which breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect. When a person tries to criticise his friend, their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.

Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are more dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words they bring enormous ruin to us. A true friend never exploits. He rather surrenders. But at present, the meaning of friendship has changed.

There are many fair-weathered friends. They terminate their friendly tie as soon as their interests are fulfilled. It is very difficult to find a true friend today. It is better to establish true friendship with either a dog or an elephant. Both these beasts will remain faithful to their human friends. Today, friendship between two persons is short-lived.

Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.

Loves happens only once

                                Loves happens only once

U mite thinking that it’s really a impractical thing. But guys it’s a fact “LOVES HAPPENS ONLY ONCE REST ALL ARE EXPRIENCE”.  The first love that happens to us is always exciting. Some of us used to think about her/him full night and day.  Sum of us used to hide ourselves inside in blanket and used to sweat like anything but still we did it just to have a SMS chat with  him/her. Recharge our mobile regularly and activate the SMS scheme just to be in touch wid her/him all day and nite.  The thing that we shared about him/her with our friend with a feel of joy and a strange feeling of excitement which can’t be describe in words.  

But some are not that lucky to have same first love throughout the life . Though we move ahead in life and meet someone and fall in love again. But this time it not just love we are committing with each other but with an experience. An experience that we got from our first love. The old same exciting doesn’t remain anymore. We become more practical saying that it’s impossible with you all the time and that we have responsibility.

The famous Hindi dialogue that “we can spend our whole life with each other just on love” , suddenly changes to “Be practical loves aint enough we need money to survive.”  WE become smarter and more practical. But we still cant  forget our first love,strange but true :).

All Love story have a happy ending no matter what you say.

What’s a love story according to you? A boy loves a girl. Girl shows attitude. Boy still pursues her and at last he gets her love. Happy ending right? What about the boy/girl who loves and can’t express their feelings. What will you call their love? 

“Untold Love stories”, “Not true Love” or “Just an attraction”. 

I know many of us will do anything to get our love, but it’s not necessary that we indeed get it. Saying “I Love You” is really not that easy. But once you say it, u feel light hearted and relaxed. And then decision comes from the person we proposed to. It might be a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’. If it’s a ‘yes’ we are happy and if ‘no’ we get depressed. 

Getting depressed is not the solution. I know it is easy to say but you must feel happy not because you got a ‘no’, but you got to know what love really means. 

In a love story the most important factor, as you might know, is love. You should feel proud that you got to experience the world’s most wonderful feeling “Love”.

Never feel pity for yourself; always feel proud because it might act like a medicine when u feel low. It will give you tremendous energy that will charge you up to overcome that depression. 

      GETTING LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS IMPORTANT BUT FEELING IT .

One Side LOve- The most Hurting feeling

Yeah OSL (One Side Love ) most of us have been through this but only few had the guts to express their feeling in the front of their love and even some might succeeded in it and spend their entire life with the people whom they love.

But  most who are in OSL are afraid to do so due to the fear of rejection or feeling to make a fool out of themself. In OSL we just spent our time thinking about our love. And if we see them in our canteen area or class or office or at any function we become conscious. We start to think what can we do to get her attention and when we try to approach them and find that they are surrounded by alpha personality  we go back in our nest due to fear.

OSL is good but too much holding on one person and assuming they will  come all the way to us and say " I Love you too" then don't except diz. It just sound amazing in bollywood movies but the in reality its completely opposite.  You have to go there and say those words "I LOVE YOU" all by yourself and should be ready if she /he doesn't give the answer that you expected. IF you are rejected it would be tough for you but don't get depress , just move ahead. Who knows your soul mate might be waiting to get you in the future.All what I want to share to the people who are in One Side Love just go out and say what you feel instead of keeping it inside yourself at least you won't feel neglected. That you weren't able to express your feeling to your love :)

College dayss

Remembering my class mates, after few yrs. My eyes were filled with tears Everyone now is busy a lot. No one escaped destiny's plot. . Project reviews to campus interviews Nicknames to last bench games, Cultural reharsals to love proposals, Short term crushes to class room blushes. Everything is fresh in our mind, Wish life could just rewind Let's laugh, play and rejoice, Once again become college guys Chatting and laughing , we all were in elation Till then painful momement of sepration. When it was time to part We retumed with a heave heart. Today life is full of commitments And too many worries But those cherished moments WILL LIVE FOEVER IN OUR MEMORIES!!!!! :)

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